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Don, you beat me to it and nailed it....I've been stewing on this for about an hour....

 

I can't find anything here saying the forums are 'females only', and from what I have ever seen, men have been openly welcome here.

I personally think it is great to have males on here, sharing their own experiences and also getting a guy's perspective, and I can see that many (most?) women feel the same by their posts.

 

The adversion would come from an insecure person (we all are to some degree as we have made/will make modifications our original bodies) who have not bothered to see why a person is on these forums and see their back story. (Like SBS says, there's 6 billions stories out there...)

There are just as many males as females in this world, and I commend any man who has had/is considering surgery, who has the nouse to do a bit of research on their & their partner's surgery/recovery, and contribute their knowledge or experiences for the benefit of others.

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I agree. This forum is for plastic surgery and is not limited to women. There is one male on here in particular who always has great advice and his input is always welcomed. I think its great that there are both men and women on here. We are all in the same situation wanting to change something we are not happy with about ourselves,

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Here here.

Plastic surgery forum, not womens plastic surgery forum!

It is our choice to what is public and private. If you have a problem make your photos private.

This male is valued member in my eyes :)

I completely agree! I don't think that he should be forced to leave the forum. If you don't want your pics seen by a guy, don't add him as a friend and make them private....simple!

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I think it's great that there's a forum such as this for men to research on too. They would have the same concerns about BA BL BR etc etc ext as women do, just that they need to learn about it to understand and support their partners rather than experience it. Plus men have surgeries too!!!!!! And like you said if you're not comfortable with a male seeing you're pic, make them private or don't add them as a friend. 

 

I will say it's funny though for those girls not wanting their boobs etc seen by males they don't know who they are, don't know where they live or work, and will never meet them, to me it's a little like who cares, if you're never going to really know who they are, have they ever really seen them??

 

Plus... you've put your boobs on the INTERNET!! This is not a porn site, there's some beautiful looking boobs on here as a result, but there's a lot of boobs on here that are pretty horrible (sorry don't mean to offend), before photos, ops gone wrong, drains, tubes, tape etc, if men are on this site, they aren't on here to get off, and lets be honest, how do we even know that every one of these female profiles is actually female in real???  

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what have I missed?? Is he being forced to leave? Thats BS if so.

I missed it too, whatever it is!

 

I'm happy to see men using the forum and helping others with plastic surgery. They have just as much a right to enhance themselves as women do.

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Don, thanks for starting this thread and ladies for your comments and messages, you really made my morning reading them after a pretty ordinary day yesterday, topped off by basically being told I was a creep for commenting on someone's breast photo.

I'll be hanging around though because there are some awesome people on here (as witnessed by comments above) and don't feel so bad about someone getting their nose out of joint after your messages of support. I certainly don't come here to get off looking at boob pics and hopefully my contributions are valued and helpful.

On reflection, I can see why it might feel weird or creepy for someone who assumes that everyone on here is female to have a male commenting on their breasts, in fact it might seem weird even knowing there are guys on here (my g/f could understand their point in that regard).

From now on I'll keep to the forums and leave the "rate my boobs" area alone ;-)

Thanks again ladies for your messages of support and for making me feel welcome :-)

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You truly are a nice men.. But I think if someone posts a photo of their boobs and allows comments then you should fell welcome to comment on it!

I think your comments and input on here has always been great and very valuable

I am sure whoever it is that think that only women should be part of this should ,ove to a female only site if she pleases.

Sorry your day was not great yesterday.lif it helps mine is going much the same way today!

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You truly are a nice men.. But I think if someone posts a photo of their boobs and allows comments then you should fell welcome to comment on it!

I think your comments and input on here has always been great and very valuable

I am sure whoever it is that think that only women should be part of this should ,ove to a female only site if she pleases.

Sorry your day was not great yesterday.lif it helps mine is going much the same way today!

Thanks Linda. It's great to feel valued, just a shame how it came about lol

I can see how it comes across as weird or creepy having a guy comment though it wasn't my intention at all.

I'll stick to commenting to my girlfriend on hers. If she thinks I'm being a creep, she'll slap me ;-)

Sorry to hear you are having a sucky day, sending out some positive vibes and hoping it improves for you :-)

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I don't find it at all creepy having guys on the forum. Whitey, l have found you to be great, not at all creepy lol. You give advice and support to other's and you are respectful. If people don't want their pics viewed by men then keep them private! 

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Lets be honest I would not be surprised if there are few 'female profiles' that are men which is actually creepy. Whitey has always given great advice and has never pretended to be a female, which to me is great! This is a plastic surgery forum, not a 'women's only forum' keep posting Whitey, women make your pictures private if you don't want comments.

Also when I first started I was friend requested and excepted this person. Thinking that they have lots of 'friends' (like three pages) but noticed they had no post, nothing in there gallery or really any information on there profile and they had been a member for quite some time. To me this is creepy.

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Whitey, I've been reading your posts for a while and not once did I get the feeling there was anything disingenuous about you. You seem like a respectful and caring guy and I'm sorry for you that someone got upset. This is the internet so I feel if anyone posts something they should expect public comment. Don't stop posting. Your comments and insights are valuable and comforting to many I think

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I was not the person who said anything- but I have a suspicion as to who did- but as this question has been asked I'm going to be blisteringly honest. I have raised an eyebrow about a male on here-waving the flag of sisterhood- looking at and commenting on BA's. I wouldn't be chipping in my 2 cents on a forum with men sharing their penis enlargement surgeries complete with before & after pics. I have absolutely no issues with men being on the site commenting on surgeries. Perhaps you ladies are more modern or open than I am but I found it incredibly stomach turning when a thread was created asking what sex positions we most preferred so he could bang his girlfriend. I noticed it disappeared which makes me believe the moderators didn't think it was appropriate either.

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No idea what I missed either but oh well

No problems at all with whitey or any other male being on this forum, as someone posted above we could be sharing our breast photos with males pretending to be females anyway and well this is the inter webs. Also we do have the option of who we share our photos with they don't have to be public and I'd bet if pictures are public a lot more men out there would be ogling them who aren't members than those with a common interest who are registered active members of the forum. Just my 2cents

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Bahaha I know of who u speak Don! ;) And as for you Mr Whitey ( I'm a married old dirty lady) if that's indeed you on your profile pic you can comment on my enhanced chest any old time :) :) I know I didn't get the girls to be a shrinking old violet! No offence to modest ladies.. After 4 kids I have none left! ;) x

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Bahaha I know of who u speak Don! ;) And as for you Mr Whitey ( I'm a married old dirty lady) if that's indeed you on your profile pic you can comment on my enhanced chest any old time :) :) I know I didn't get the girls to be a shrinking old violet! No offence to modest ladies.. After 4 kids I have none left! ;) x

Ahaha you are too right!!!

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Bahaha I know of who u speak Don! ;) And as for you Mr Whitey ( I'm a married old dirty lady) if that's indeed you on your profile pic you can comment on my enhanced chest any old time :) :) I know I didn't get the girls to be a shrinking old violet! No offence to modest ladies.. After 4 kids I have none left! ;) x

Dee envy, awesome I'll send a FR now and give a comprehensive review on your additions :cool: that is a joke by the way before anyone starts abusing me!! lol

 

Unfortunately that isn't me in my avatar - that is the jaw definition I would love though. Fingers crossed once the swelling goes down properly.

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