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Is it just drinks or a date?


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Hope I can post this here as it's "off topic".

Having a discussion with some friends.  What constitutes "just drinks" and what is considered a date?  To me, I had drinks with two guys I met (one a friend of a friend, the other an online date) and nothing progressed after that night.

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If I don't know them I never commit to a date. We meet for a drink or coffee and if we like each other the dates come after the casual meet.

ive had one too many situations where I wanted to fake my own death to get out of a date so from now on I don't commit anything more then a drink that way I have an easy out if need ?

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Personally, I would consider any one-on-one meet up with a guy, for the purpose of getting to know him to possibly start a relationship/hook up with, as a date. If the intention is to get to know him as just a friend then I'd say it's  just drinks. I think it's all about the intent :)

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On 7/6/2016 at 9:17 PM, Elisabethd88 said:

Personally, I would consider any one-on-one meet up with a guy, for the purpose of getting to know him to possibly start a relationship/hook up with, as a date. If the intention is to get to know him as just a friend then I'd say it's  just drinks. I think it's all about the intent :)

 

Couldn't have said it any better. 

But it's also important that you establish the reason why you're going out with the guy, as to not show mixed signals during and after the "drinks/date".

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