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22 hours ago, Melbmummy said:

Loads of views on posts but hardly any replies.

So let's talk boobs...

I got 450cc and now consideringgoing bigger. Boob greed is crazy. I have hubby on side but no one else (gfs) understands my desire.

I was hoping id find some ladies to talk to on here

Hi @Melbmummy, I only had my first BA 2 weeks ago so I’m definitely not considering a re-do just yet. My boobs are looking like they will be the exact size I asked the surgeon for so I’m very happy. However, I can totally understand the desire to go bigger. Maybe I will want to go bigger next time as I certainly could carry it off with my build! 

If you can afford it and your hubby’S on board, then why not go for it! Just don’t enter into discussion with the friends who are being negative. I only told select friends about my BA...ones who I knew would be supportive. After all, it’s no body’s business but yours ?

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Hi @Melbmummy i have only had 1 BA and that was 8 months ago, and while i have the xeact boobs i asked my ps for i did and still have days where i get really bad boob greed and wish i went bigger but that being said i do love the size of my breasts right now they suit my frame very well and i am a very active person ( i teach aerobic classes and am a PT) so i think that if they were any bigger it would impact on my life to much i also find it harder to find 12 DD/E ( 34DD/E ) bras .

If your gf's are not supportive of you wanting to go bigger well its not up to them it's your body and the only persons opinion that counts should be yours its good that your husband is on side as he will most likely be the one who spends the first coulpe of days of your recovery nursing you and helping around the house ect. 

If you want to do it do it for you . ? 

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On 7/11/2018 at 10:47 AM, JD* said:

Is it possible that your friends could be jealous?

If you want to go bigger, do it for yourself and no one else..including your friends. :) 

@Lynxuskitten to begin with i knew i wanted bigger boobs but at same time i didnt want crazy big as it was something i didnt want ppl to know (i felt it was something i was doing for myself and only 1 friend knew)  but now 2 yrs on i wish id gone bigger.  Now a few gfs know but are all happy for me but dont understand the need to spend  $$ on boobs.

Now going back a 2nd time looooooads of judgemental views so its something i again try keep to myself/hubby/ a gf and u guys ? 

 

 

Thanks ladies. I love to chat esp about boobs ? so was also trying to open up discussion window...

Hubby is my bestest friend so if the 2 of us are on same page then for me its a no brainer. Will discuss with ps and go from there. I definitely want the bigger boobs and whilst hubby is morethan happy with what ive got hell he wont complain lol

I think its just that im a talker and have so many ppl that voice negative opinions so ive tried reaching out on here.

But always happy to chat so lets keep talking xx

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On 7/10/2018 at 6:27 PM, Melbmummy said:

Loads of views on posts but hardly any replies.

So let's talk boobs...

I got 450cc and now consideringgoing bigger. Boob greed is crazy. I have hubby on side but no one else (gfs) understands my desire.

I was hoping id find some ladies to talk to on here

I completely understand how you feel and as the other ladies have said, perhaps your friends are jealous?! 

Im 12 weeks post op and I'm so unhappy with the size of my boobs that I completely regret ever having them done. I feel like I've wasted 12k.

I can't even discuss this with my hubby as he gets annoyed at the thought we'd spent this money and I'm not satisfied. 

We live and learn! Do what makes you happy and if getting a revision will do that, I say go for it! 

 

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4 minutes ago, Ss84 said:

I completely understand how you feel and as the other ladies have said, perhaps your friends are jealous?! 

Im 12 weeks post op and I'm so unhappy with the size of my boobs that I completely regret ever having them done. I feel like I've wasted 12k.

I can't even discuss this with my hubby as he gets annoyed at the thought we'd spent this money and I'm not satisfied. 

We live and learn! Do what makes you happy and if getting a revision will do that, I say go for it! 

 

Oh hunny I'm sorry you feel this way, but your only 3 mpo and all the swelling has gone now so maybe give it a bit more time as you have only just begun to D&F , i know it's something that gets said quite a lot and it probably dosn't make you feel any better but fingers crossed that in another 6-12 wks they will fluff some more , just looked at your post op pics and i think they look great by the way. ?

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@Ss84 sorry to hear you are still so unhappy with your size, it’s so much to go through to be unsatisfied afterwards ? for what it’s worth, I think your boobs look absolutely gorgeous but I know that doesn’t mean much when you aren’t happy with them yourself. 

I’m early days (only 3 weeks PO) and I do have fleeting moments of ‘maybe I should have gone bigger’ but then I look at my before pics and realise how far I’ve actually come. For me, it’s really important to keep looking at these things in perspective - my preop boobs were completely flat and I was so so desperately unhappy with them. So I am thrilled to have new boobs! I love making before and after collages which really drives home how much better I look now! If you want to see the transformation, send me a FR. 

Sorry, I know this won’t help the girls wanting to go bigger but thought I’d share my perspective with the group. 

Who knows, I’ll probably go bigger when I’m due for a revision ?

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@Ss84 Sorry to hear how you feel about your boobs but honestly, they look awesome! Are you unhappy with the projection rather than size?

Hopefully these feelings will go away as I believe it's a normal process emotionally and mentally no matter how many weeks, months it has been since surgery. Prior to surgery, it's just so hard to predict how your boobs will turn out afterwards. You either end up happy, not happy or inbetween. Can't win. If I was to ever feel like that, I would look back at my pre op photos which would make me feel a lot better knowing I have better boobs than before.

Chin up hun, you're not alone with these feelings of doubt. In my eyes, they look fantastic on you :)

 

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Thanks ladies. I'm trying to remain positive and I'm hoping with time I will learn to love them.

The decision to have my boobs done wasn't made lightly and it was a 14 year debate with my hubby... a bloody hard man to crack!!! I guess because if this I'm left even more disappointed because I had very high expectations. My husband has never been interested in boobs and is definitely a butt man so it was purely for myself that I had them done. 

I have been a full time stay at home mum to our 4 kids for the past 8 years, so I feel guilty that I've spent 12k on myself and not feel satisfied when the money could have been used elsewhere! 

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On 7/21/2018 at 4:44 PM, Ss84 said:

Thanks ladies. I'm trying to remain positive and I'm hoping with time I will learn to love them.

The decision to have my boobs done wasn't made lightly and it was a 14 year debate with my hubby... a bloody hard man to crack!!! I guess because if this I'm left even more disappointed because I had very high expectations. My husband has never been interested in boobs and is definitely a butt man so it was purely for myself that I had them done. 

I have been a full time stay at home mum to our 4 kids for the past 8 years, so I feel guilty that I've spent 12k on myself and not feel satisfied when the money could have been used elsewhere! 

Try not to feel guilty of spending all that money on yourself,  being a stay at home mum is a very demanding and rewarding job it is 24/7 and dosn't come with days off sick pay or over time pay plus you have to look after the big kid when he gets home from work ? so over the last 8 yrs if you wete to add up all the over time, un-taken sick pay  ect i say you earned every bit of the 12k you spent on yourself, as mum's we are always putting our family first so don't feef guilty please, you are worth every dollar. ?

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8 hours ago, I HaveBoobs said:

Try not to feel guilty of spending all that money on yourself,  being a stay at home mum is a very demanding and rewarding job it is 24/7 and dosn't come with days off sick pay or over time pay plus you have to look after the big kid when he gets home from work ? so over the last 8 yrs if you wete to add up all the over time, un-taken sick pay  ect i say you earned every bit of the 12k you spent on yourself, as mum's we are always putting our family first so don't feef guilty please, you are worth every dollar. ?

100% agree!! Us Mums can be sick as a dog, yet we still have to soldier on and deal with our family.

I’ve been a Mum for 17yrs and like you @Ss84 I feel bad too but I keep telling myself that I deserve to spoil myself for once with something that’s going to make me happy and confident. Don’t feel bad. Being a Mum is a tough job. 

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