Freaking out..... Thinking of cancelling - is this normal???!!

[coastgirl]

Would love some advice... as THE date draws near (less than 2 weeks now) I'm getting nervous and even considering not going ahead with my BA.

Have thought about it for years but am all of a sudden thinking.... what's wrong with small boobs? maybe boobs won't suit me? what if they end up too round? too big? lop-sided? infected? aaagggghhhhh!!!

Did anyone else have indecision leading up to it??

It is fairly typical of my nature I guess, some moments i think JUST DO IT and don't over think it and then then i have others where I worry about the risks as I have 2 children and wondering if I'm just being selfish, I'm a small frame, I have small boobs - i should just get over it.

AAhhhhh as you can see, I'm losing it!! Lol.

I'm due to see Dr Piyapas, he was recommended by a friend of a friend but I haven't seen pics and haven't seen any online. Don't seem to be able to access any on here. Someone recommended a site but its a hosp site not sure if its his work. I emailed Mark (the liaison) and asked for before/afters and he said Dr P will show me during consult only.

If ANYONE is happy to share pics I'd really appreciate it. Or has anyone seen Dr P and seen the pics in consult.

Just need some reassurance.

THANK YOU!!!!

[Lozz68]

This type of freaking out is definitely normal!! from what ive seen this type of indecision is common leading up to surgery as it is such a big deal for so many of us!! If this is really what you want to do i think you should stick to it, but another option would be to see if you can have the surgery pushed back a little until you are sure?? If you have wanted them for years, and think that you will probably continue to want them until you have them then i say go ahead!!

Unfortunately i cant help you with Dr P as i am pre-op and also having my surgery in Oz.

[JenJen]

This is totally normal!!! I'd be worried if you weren't nervous..

I have my surgery tomorrow and as the day goes by I'm getting more and more anxious - I think by tomorrow morning I'll be a bit of a jittery mess! I just keep reminding myself of the reasons why I'm doing this and that tomorrow arvo I'm going to finally have boobs

Have you tried doing a forum search for threads about Dr Piyapas? I'm sure I've heard him mentioned positively on here, but can't remember specifics..

Good luck with your journey xx

[chacha]

Try sending a message and friend request to bigbooty and princess jasmine. it may take a while as they are not on here regularly now. Sorry I would put mine up now, but only have the iPad so can't do it. Will do in about 10 days time, in saying that all is going well, and those very thoughts crossed my mind too.....mostly when I was in pain post op and the anaesthetic was wearing off!

Cheers

ChaCha

[coastgirl]

WOW, tomorrow! Good luck, that's so exciting for you.

Yeh not sure if it's more about having it o/s or having it done in general.

We booked the hol first and then I got the idea from a friend of a friend who'd been over there and that's where it all started.... had always contemplated it but never really thought i'd go through with it.

Have decided to give myself another cpl of days to think on it and hopefully I'll know the right way to go.

Hope yours goes so well for you. And you have a really smooth recovery

[coastgirl]

I looked at your avatar pic and wondered why you were having your boobs done then read your note at bottom, LOL!!

Yours is not far away either.

Thank you. I am going to give myself a few more days and if i still feel really unsure i'll try and put it back. they're there forever so i want to be sure... well not forever but u know what i mean!!

good luck

[coastgirl]

Thanks Cha Cha i did try sending princess jasmine a msg but inbox was full. i'll friend request big booty.

How are you feeling now? 9 days post op wow hasn't been long.

Has the recovery been tough so far?

When u got to the hospital and met Dr Piyapas did u feel really sure you'd made the right decision??

Did u have any last minute freak outs??

Sorry for all the q's and thank u! Hope the recovery is going well

Edited September 19, 2012 by coastgirl
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[Pixievibes]

Coast Girl - I am exactly the same. I have actually pushed my surgery date back twice! I have wanted it for years..but I do sometimes think 'what's wrong with tiny boobs' and I very scared I won't like the result. My main concern in that I haven't had kids yet and my boobs might get stuffed up when I do. I'm booked in for the 12th October now.. I have all the money together.. now it's just a matter of if I go through with it or not...

The pics and stories on here make me more confident!

[chacha]

Think what was going through my mind during the flight over was "am I really doing this.... 2 kids and hubby in toe, in a foreign country!" but when I got to the hospital it was all systems go with tests etc that I just went with the flow. My consult wasn't overly long, but I didn't have a lot of questions, we just cut to the issues I had and how to get the results I wanted. I really probably felt some regret off and on during the first 24 hours post op, with what I suppose was the boobie blues....kind of flat feeling. Since then I developed a cold, came on on tues evening, one of my kids gave it to me, but I can say when I got the temperature before the cold set in I did some major stressing....now I just have a full blown head cold . Even so, I actually feel pretty good, on no pain meds at all. Oh and by the way when I did get the temperature, they sent out a car brought me in for a quick check up to be sure there was no infection, which was comforting. So when you come, bring a thermometer of some sort so you can be on to it fast.

I still have another post op appointment to come, seen him post op Monday, (nurses on tues with temp issue) and as we are here for a good long time, another final check up Saturday. Actually both hubby and I are having our teeth whitened then too.

HTH

Chacha

Thanks Cha Cha i did try sending princess jasmine a msg but inbox was full. i'll friend request big booty.

How are you feeling now? 9 days post op wow hasn't been long.

Has the recovery been tough so far?

When u got to the hospital and met Dr Piyapas did u feel really sure you'd made the right decision??

Did u have any last minute freak outs??

Sorry for all the q's and thank u! Hope the recovery is going well

[blair08]

Hi,

I have had the exact same freakout this week I have been given some very lovely advice and reassurance on here ( I think Lozz may have been referring to me in her first post haha) but I have wanted this for so long and I want to feel good when I look in the mirror. Even when I've been super fit and put in all of the hard work, the boobs have let me down...I hope to get a good run out of them, but what has made me feel better is thinking that they don't have to be in forever. If I can enjoy them for ten (maybe 15?) years I'll reassess after that. I'm thinking back to all the times I've wished they were there......................too many to count.

[bak4more]

I have been wanting them done for years and years it hasnt been the money that stopped me its just never really quite got up the nerve, well I had dental surgery in Phuket after a recommendation from a actual dental surgeron in nz whom said I could save thousands by going to thailand and have a holiday n get my teeth done. Went over a couple of years ago and my teeth are outstanding to say the least hollywood smile... people are contantly commenting so I decided after watching a program on TV to go back and have my boobies done... 12 days to go ... cant wait should have made this decision years ago...dummy me

[Mrs G]

Hi! I too have thought about getting boobs for years and it is something that I have always kept to myself and not mentioned to my husband or my family as I didn't know how they would react. At the beginning of this year is when I really thought strongly about it and soon after I just mentioned it to hubby and from there he was very supportive and it was all systems go...within a month I had surgery and Dr Piyapas booked, flights, accommodation etc all booked so it happened very quickly.

Just this last couple of weeks though I have been thinking the same sort of things as you as I too have 2 young children. I feel like i am being selfish My husband and my kids are not coming with me so that is really scary. I am going with a friend. I don't know how I am going to cope without them around me for 9 days.

I don't think I could cancel or change the date as everything is booked but I am super nervous and freaking out already and I still have 2 1/2 months to wait! In saying that though I am also very excited!!

Good luck with everything. Like others have said, i am sure all these thoughts are completely normal. I have read and heard nothing but good things about Dr Piyapas so I am sure we will be in good hands. Although I haven't seen any photos either, would love to see some too. I have sent you a friend request.

[Billychic]

I was the same at last week but this week I'm like bring it on I want boobies haha it's normal all I'm worried about is that mine will look fake or if the old birds at my work find out lol u will be fine just think if u cancel it u will be forever thinking what if? And if ur anything like me ur never going to be happy with having no boobs

[francoise]

Hi

I booked my surgery for June this year, and in the months leading up to June, I started to freak out. I'd organised the whole trip myself, going on my own, and I started to get really anxious, sleepless nights etc. So I postponed my trip until September, and booked myself on a Group Tour with Destination Beauty - then all the anxiety kind of dissolved. When I got to my first hospital appointment, and saw how efficient everything was, and my doctor was very thorough, I felt completely at ease with having surgery in an overseas hospital. Meanwhile, back at home, I think my mum was freaking out. (Internet in thailand was so terrible and I couldnt contact via phone) but my mum called me at the hospital without any trouble at all, then I think she became at ease with it all as well).

After I got over being freaked out, I became so determined to get it done, that I wasnt nervous at all.

I'm on the other side of it now, and honestly think it was one of the best things I've ever done for myself.

[missaimeegilchrist]

Good luck! I'm sure it's very common what you're going through - I know I've had the same thoughts running through my head so many times, where I'll think my boobs are actually okay the way they are. But then I start to remember how long I've wanted to get them done, and how i've been so selfconcious of them and I know this is the right decision for me. If they have somehow affected the confidence you have, and you're doing it for you and you haven't jumped straight into it, I reckon it will be one of the best choices you will ever make for yourself.

Don't think about it being selfish, you're a mother and you've put others before yourself so many times. Time to do something for yourself for once! Nothing wrong with that!

All the best

EDIT: Didn't realize how old this post was... haha my mistake.

[Champerx]

Having this same problem.. everytime I go to book my dates.. negative thoughts come flowing in... and oh the guilt... I'm not exactly flat but they're nothing amazing either.. so I find myself saying "maybe they'll do?"

[Diamonds]

Just do it if you can't forget about it and its on your bucket list do it you might surprise yourself

[russianjewel]

Hi Coastgirl,

Im single no kids and i have wanted Boobs for many years now. I have paid a deposit at The cosmetic Institute to lock in my Surgery date on 15th August. I have my consult on 30th July with Dr Tang. I was going to go overseas but i could not build up the courage to do so. Just recently i have noticed that TCI is only charging $6000 for a BA and i dont have to leave the country. The Drs there have excellent reviews as many girls on here have gone there for BA. I am going through the emotional roller coaster as well. Having thoughts thinking what if i get CC or an infection or my body rejects them. Also not knowing how big i want to go. My Bottom half of my body is curvy a JLO bottom and hips and im probably a medium frame. I think i can easily pull off a full set of boobs. I am with you on the worries but hey we have wanted them for so long now im just going to do it and hope every thing goes well and if not well just have to fix the problem. Goodluck and i think you should just go for it. I have done heaps of research on overseas DR's and Dr P has great reviews so you are in good hands.