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Some of you might have read my thread a few days ago about my boyfriend breaking up with me and this sort of flows on from it. I don't know whether anyone else has experienced this but every guy I hear talking about breast implants refers to them as fake tits and pays out girls that have them and just speaks horribly of them and degrades girls who have them. They have no respect for girls who get them done and are very open about it. I was out a dinner last night and all the guys at the table were saying some horrible things that made me feel so selfconcious and is making me second guess booking my BA.

Has anyone actually experienced negativity because you got your boobs done? Especially girls who were single when you got them done did it affect how guys treated you or thought of you or even just other guy friends?

I thought it was just my ex who thought that but now I've heard it from so many guys it's making me nervous I don't want every guy to think I'm fake...

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i'm sorry you had to experience that! dont let some silly guys that don't know what they're talking about discourage you.. i haven't had my BA yet but you wouldn't believe the amount of men i've spoken to who cant even spot a boob job when they see one! many men seem to have this warped idea of what most women look like with a BA, the first things that comes to mind is that Heidi Montag, overly large and bolted on look (which is what some women want, which is completely fine too) although i think men can be a little naive at times and freak out. when in reality, after the implants have dropped and fluffed into place they just look like an amazing, natural pair of boobs!

i think men just don't realise how common breast implants actually are and associate them with what they see on tv etc.

also when guys are in a group they usually all agree with one another regardless of what they actually think. it seems the less we know about particular things the more close minded we are, so we can't expect all boys to be onboard with breast implants either. i'm sure if you go ahead with the procedure you'll be changing a lot of minds though! good luck xx

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You're hanging out with the wrong guys lady! There are young know it apps who are loud mouths and know nothing and there are respectful men who appreciate women in all shapes and sizes. I've had fakies since 23 and am now 31, I have been single for the most part and dated many in between! I can honestly say I don't know of any guy I've been with or spoken to who've disliked my boobs or thought any less of me, in fact 100% love them! But I wear them with confidence and would drop a guy faster then id drop my boobs and everyone knows that haha.

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Eh I don't give a damn what anyone else thinks apart from my partner and family, and even if they didn't like them (which they don't really, they say I don't need it and am beautiful without them blah blah) it's rude and disrespectful to be making comments like that.

Especially more so if they don't even know the woman and are only judging her based on how she looks, who gives them the right to speak badly of someone they don't know, talking sh*t like that. Maybe there is more to a woman than how she looks, how about that for a novel idea?? They need to realise that women don't exist on this planet just to please men and do things that men like and we don't need to gain approval from F*CKING DOUCHEBAG MEN. They need to shut their pie holes. And these are probably the same kind of guys that would happily flick through a Zoo or FHM mag in which you would find plenty of FAKE breasts. Makes me so angry. I would find it very difficult to be around people like that.

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Like Donatella said, they are young loudmouths. Guys like that think all fake boobs are like that they see in porn. They are unaware that far more women than they realise have them - most are more subtle that they realise. And boys like that don't get subtle!

I know guys that aren't in to them, and prefer natural, but then I also know guys that aren't into blondes either!

It's personal preference, but I think any decent guy does not care either way, they are more interested in the person within. Not to say they won't be a welcome bonus!

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Eh I don't give a damn what anyone else thinks apart from my partner and family, and even if they didn't like them (which they don't really, they say I don't need it and am beautiful without them blah blah) it's rude and disrespectful to be making comments like that.

Especially more so if they don't even know the woman and are only judging her based on how she looks, who gives them the right to speak badly of someone they don't know, talking sh*t like that. Maybe there is more to a woman than how she looks, how about that for a novel idea?? They need to realise that women don't exist on this planet just to please men and do things that men like and we don't need to gain approval from F*CKING DOUCHEBAG MEN. They need to shut their pie holes. And these are probably the same kind of guys that would happily flick through a Zoo or FHM mag in which you would find plenty of FAKE breasts. Makes me so angry. I would find it very difficult to be around people like that.

that's what annoys me the most! when boys say they don't like fake boobs but all the girls they're constantly looking at in Zoo etc have them. does my head in!

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Yeah none of them know what they are talking about they were paying out their friends girlfriend because she wants them done too and i just couldn't believe the way they were talking about her and she is one of the sweetest kindest girl i know. It really annoys me that they are so frowned upon in society like only porn stars and strippers get them so it makes every other girl like that too!

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wow ive never come across a man in all my years thats head doesnt get whip lash at the sight of a pair of big porn boobies....they are just jealous ladies and dont want their own girls getting extra attention...i would adore a big set of boobs like Don... There are alot of places in the world where big plastic boobs are common place and not associated with strippers/porn etc(not that theres anything wrong with that profession!!) head over to somewhere like Texas where all the wifes carry no less than a set of 500 cc.. Our society in Australia lags behind in the acceptance of plastic surgery.. we will catch up though! xx

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Just shows how immature they are. I have never met a man that doesn't like boobs not matter if they fake or not. If they are shallow minded like that they dont deserve you anyway hun

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I think they associate fake titts with a certain stereo type. Fake titts or natural everythinng has to do with the way you present yourself. You need to adopt a level of confidence and accept them yourself.. when youve gotten comfortable with the idea yourself you will not pay attention to comments coming from these insecure guys

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The guys that bag girls who look slutty or have fake titts are usually the first ones to jump at the opportunity to get with one.. I think guys get intimidated of the thought of their gf getting boobs and try to put her off with comments like that. My bf was completely against it.. I told him I dont care and done it anyway he is now obsessed with them.. he doesn't like to admit it but our sex drive has gone through the roof and he literally cups my boobs now n then n says 'just checking theyre still there' Lol #boobs

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Personally I hate the term "fake tits" mine feel very real to me !! They have probably gawked at plenty of women with awesome boobs and not even been able to tell there augmented. They just sound immature. I bet they wouldn't speak like that if their mum had implants ! Don't let people sway you on your decision to have breast implants, after all you only do it for you no one else. Also my husband was guilty of using this term with me before I had my surgery, however I made it very clear to him that he is never to refer to my boobs that way or he'll never have the pleasure of touching them hehe

goodluck :)

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Personally I have no issue having "fake tits" at all and I am proud of mine - it takes a lot of $, pain and effort to get a beautiful set and I am proud of mine. No doubt they'll notice them when I go back to work next week cos I've gone from like a B to a DD or beyond and if they ask I will be honest as pie :)

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I also dislike the term fake tits but maybe I'm just being a bit overly sensitive. The guys sound really immature and I would stop hanging out with them if they are going to be so disrespectful. I agree with the posters that have said that men usually can't pick a ba anyway and have no problems with perving at women who have had bas. Just remember why you want this done OP and as far as dating goes the right man won't care that you have implants and will accept them as a part of you.

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Hi guys. People can tell I have "fake tits" because I went quite large for my frame. But I don't give a flying f...I think I look great and I love them. I am single and the guys who have felt them think they are awesome and say they won't be able to look at natural boobs the same because mine are so perfect.

Unfortunately we live in a judgemental society so people will judge you. And unless you're acting like a complete bimbo, chances are the girls are just jealous and the guys are immature!!

At the end of the day we all got implants for a reason. So rock it and be confident about it. If someone has had braces do you tell them they have "fake teeth"?

Xo

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Oh honey don't give those boys immature words too much thought. Usually guys like that secretly would love their girls to have beautiful full breasts but they probably don't so to make those girls feel better and themselves feel better about their girls they bag them. I find most guys who bag fake boobs are the ones with the insecurities not us because what we say about others is a reflection on us. So if their bagging out fake boobs what they are really saying is "I'm not good enough to be with a woman that values herself enough to invest in herself, so ill bag her out to make myself feel better about my own insecurities".

I got fake boobs at 23 and am 31 now I was single for a number of years and not one guy said anything negative it was all omg's, wows, and their perfects :).

Honey now that you've ditched the boyfriend maybe consider upgrading the guys you hang out with, to openly bag out women's choices about their bodies in public as general conversation is absolutely disgusting!

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If someone has had braces do you tell them they have "fake teeth"?

hahaha oh that made me laugh. That's soooo true! Like i do get the whole "it's not a necessary surgery" and that i'm vain or it's crazy for wanting to undergo a serious surgery to permanently change my body but I think so many people have no idea about them so they just adopt such a negative view point as if that makes them so high and friggen mighty to judge and shame others.

One of the guys at dinner was like "you're essentially paying someone to ruin the 2 things boobs are meant for, you can't breastfeed and you can't feel anything with rock hard fake tits, how stupid is that" and I was like to myself okay okay don't start a fight with someone I hardy know... but damn mad me angry! haha

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That just shows his lack of knowledge on the topic, my old gels were so so soft that my current plastic surgeon said they felt better than flesh breast - what ignorant losers - show them beautiful natural breasts after breast feeding they will soon swallow their words

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Thankfully they aren't regular people I hang out with they are my friends boyfriends and their friends (who are also friends with my ex so definitely don't want to hang around them!) But yeah all the guys who seem to have such a problem with them are the guys who seem to be super insecure themselves so I guess that really does say something about their personalities and insecurities!

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My man LOVES them! So not all men.as Donatella said,ur just hangin out with the wrong men! They sound very immature and judgemental.and as she also said,u do this for u,not them! Who gives a **** what a few idiots think

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