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Does anyone else have horrible luck with men? I mean some people seem to fall in love so easy and I seem to fall for tools! I'm 31, have a good job, look after my looks and body, dress well and am not totally nutty (although I have my moments lol), why the Fark do I have a d*ckhead radar on. I have tried internet, tinder (don't even let me tell you about my meet up yesterday).

im actually not fussed about finding someone I don't try that hard but I fear my age is against me and I'm destined to have horrible luck. Gone are the good old fashioned days of gentlemen. Sorry this is a bit of a rant but I'm feeling a bit deflated today :(

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says it all really.

Does anyone else have horrible luck with men? I mean some people seem to fall in love so easy and I seem to fall for tools! I'm 31, have a good job, look after my looks and body, dress well and am not

You know how the saying goes, you have to kiss a lot of frogs before finding price charming. Unfortunately, the anonymity of the online world means people are a lot bolder and don't quite hide their m

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I think you need to fine tune your dickhead radar if you keep attracting them... I used to date.. A lot! Lol, but you have to make men date you as in don't just go to their house and hang out, I know it's the more casual way to do things but that's the number one way to end up in the wrong relationship because it's the easiest way to do just that. I used to do the two date rule, first date go out and have fun with them and see if there chemistry and a natural like of each other, at the end of the date assess are they good enough for date two if they are date two is the time to suss out their values and if there is potential for date three or a relationship if there are any concerns shut them down and date someone else. I was called ruthless for this but it worked for me - my relationship is by no means perfect but I'm happy and have a great mate. If your not fussed about finding someone though I say just take some time out and yes go on the bachelor. Also you don't want kids so who cares about age :) xxx

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sometimes, you gotta kiss a few frogs before you find your prince ;) don't worry girl, i am sure you'll find the one..but in the mean time, don't focus on men! focus on yourself :) I always find that when you know what you want, and you're confident and happy..the men come running! they see radiance and glow you give off. So give yourself some time, and enjoy your life. :)

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Dont give up hope. I was 29 when I met my hubby. I think when u stop looking they find you. He is out there. Maybe the universe has more for you to achieve before you settle down. From what I can see yr stunning and have a good career so u need wait for the right man to fit into that.

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Thanks ladies! I am very comfortable single but do miss the manly attention sometimes!

Don't worry Inde I never ever go to their house for a date, as soon as they say "dvds at mine" I laugh and tell them to pull the other one! I guess it is easy to weed the wankers from the genuine ones but I tell you what I'm not sure how much more I can take. All my friends and family are coupled up I am the last and only single in my group. I am the eldest child of 4 and the only single. I'm in no hurry as I would rather save myself or mr right then mr right now but farrrk this dating thing wears you down after about 15 years haha

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Thanks ladies! I am very comfortable single but do miss the manly attention sometimes!

Don't worry Inde I never ever go to their house for a date, as soon as they say "dvds at mine" I laugh and tell them to pull the other one! I guess it is easy to weed the wankers from the genuine ones but I tell you what I'm not sure how much more I can take. All my friends and family are coupled up I am the last and only single in my group. I am the eldest child of 4 and the only single. I'm in no hurry as I would rather save myself or mr right then mr right now but farrrk this dating thing wears you down after about 15 years haha

I hear where you are coming from. This is my brother-in-law. He is only 25 but people keep pressuring him to "find someone" and really, he has all the time in the world! Your a beautiful girl Don, you deserve a true prince :)

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sometimes, you gotta kiss a few frogs before you find your prince ;) don't worry girl, i am sure you'll find the one..but in the mean time, don't focus on men! focus on yourself :) I always find that when you know what you want, and you're confident and happy..the men come running! they see radiance and glow you give off. So give yourself some time, and enjoy your life. :)

Oh believe me I'm kissing my fair share of frogs....toads, tadpoles and whatever other bottom feeders are swimming around the bottom of the pond LOL

I am pretty good at being single and have been for most of my life but i do miss some man time and fighting the aging process in the meantime. I think I need to go older, as in 35-40 to get the same values as me

Dont give up hope. I was 29 when I met my hubby. I think when u stop looking they find you. He is out there. Maybe the universe has more for you to achieve before you settle down. From what I can see yr stunning and have a good career so u need wait for the right man to fit into that.

Aww thats lovely about your hubby libby! I know people say when they meet the one they know right away and i've never felt so you could be right! But i would like a mister right now even to break up the weekends haha

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Ohhhhh Ladies I have laughed out loud at all these comments....I was similar to TW2506 I was with my d!ck head for 13 years then went on the single market at age 31 With two man replellants (kids who I do love) and my saggy hacky sac tits yeah I was awesome not!!! Don the pickings down south are not good either hahaha try dating in a small regional town (I'm ex brisvegas girl) I did on,one dating for a while and i gave up after meeting who I nick named ferret!!! I saw it standing there and I did not want to get out of the car...I drank a bottle of wine in less than an hour to get through the date left ASAP got home dad said to me how'd ya go love my reply was somewhere along the drunk'n slur of "dad I need someone who's going to throw me around the bedroom not the other way around" hahahaha I still shudder when I see it's face

Then my second and last attempt I got the prize ad the best thing is he doesn't want children he loves my girls and 18months on I still get flowers sent I my work at least every 2 months and a loving text message every day....I guess ex military boys know how to treat a lady ;)

You should start a book about worst dates I could add to it for you ;)

Forgot to mention I'm 34 now and meet my partner 18months ago now pre boobs hehehehe

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They breed them with good family morals dwn here that's for sure :) it was funny because my partner now and I both had tick lists and we talk about how each of us meet each other's criteria hahaha, we also shared our bad dating experiences very funny...Eharmony was the dating site I used oh and we also say how we brought each other cos it costs to go online with this site hahaha

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I really envy those who married and are deeply in love with their first loves. Anyone who says dating is fun is lying is bloody emotionally draining!!

I did have fun dating BUT I was not taking it too seriously as I'd been so burnt from my ex... I'm sure you'll get a good one honey xxx

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I have the exact same problem, starting to wonder what's wrong with me. I'm 30, have always been a single parent, would love another, but seem to only attract dickheads.

I have tried every dating site around just to meet new people, have finally given up and not even interested in guys now because of how badly I get treated by them. So know how you feel :-(

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That's a shame and I'm sure it's not you it's them. I think the biggest hurdle these days is the amount of temptation with dating sites, they play the field on them and don't need to settle down until they're well and truly ready. Well that's my belief, it's so easy to have 5 girls on the go with the internet linking people whereas women (especially with kids) crave more long term and connection. Don't be put off kazzas story is a glimpse of light in the dark ronrey tunnel lol

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