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wow! READNG THIS I just felt like I was transported back to 1955.
Hey I dress how I want to when I want to! Women can dress how they want to ! I don't put clothes on everyday to HOOK A GOOD MAN or otherwise! this was the most backward patriachal nonsense I have ever read!
WE ALL KNOW THE MOUSY girl with the GOOD HUSBAND who is actually a two faced lying cheat!
WE ALL KNOW THE GLAMOURPUSS SHOWGIRL with the DOWN TO EARTH decent bloke!
There are NO RULES do and wear what makes you feel good about yourself.
END RANT.

Oh Belle, you deserve someone who is an Adult and is his own Man. He isn't ready. Love is not enough. If it didn't occur to him to contact you whilst he was away, it means you weren't in his thoughts. He didn't have the desire to contact you. Despite your mutual attraction for one another not all lovers are 'the one'. He sounds like one you have to let go of for now. He may come back in a few years when he has matured. (it does happen) but your feelings may change.

Maybe he was just here to help you learn to enjoy the opposite sex again. I am not suggesting you end your relationship but it sounds like the writing is on the wall. He doesn't sound like he will do it. He will pull back and wait for you to do it. He definitely won't do it before valentines day. He won't have the courage.

I have had a few relationships with younger men. You really have to love them for where they are in life and not cling. A lot of people say age doesn't matter but the statistics prove older women and much younger men do not go the distance.

Good luck with everything. You will be hurt more than once in life, it is just what life is about. No matter how much we try to protect ourselves from it xx

wow! READNG THIS I just felt like I was transported back to 1955.
Hey I dress how I want to when I want to! Women can dress how they want to ! I don't put clothes on everyday to HOOK A GOOD MAN or otherwise! this was the most backward patriachal nonsense I have ever read!
WE ALL KNOW THE MOUSY girl with the GOOD HUSBAND who is actually a two faced lying cheat!
WE ALL KNOW THE GLAMOURPUSS SHOWGIRL with the DOWN TO EARTH decent bloke!
There are NO RULES do and wear what makes you feel good about yourself.
END RANT.

wow! READNG THIS I just felt like I was transported back to 1955.
Hey I dress how I want to when I want to! Women can dress how they want to ! I don't put clothes on everyday to HOOK A GOOD MAN or otherwise! this was the most backward patriachal nonsense I have ever read!
WE ALL KNOW THE MOUSY girl with the GOOD HUSBAND who is actually a two faced lying cheat!
WE ALL KNOW THE GLAMOURPUSS SHOWGIRL with the DOWN TO EARTH decent bloke!
There are NO RULES do and wear what makes you feel good about yourself.
END RANT.

wow! READNG THIS I just felt like I was transported back to 1955.
Hey I dress how I want to when I want to! Women can dress how they want to ! I don't put clothes on everyday to HOOK A GOOD MAN or otherwise! this was the most backward patriachal nonsense I have ever read!
WE ALL KNOW THE MOUSY girl with the GOOD HUSBAND who is actually a two faced lying cheat!
WE ALL KNOW THE GLAMOURPUSS SHOWGIRL with the DOWN TO EARTH decent bloke!
There are NO RULES do and wear what makes you feel good about yourself.
END RANT.

says it all really.

wow! READNG THIS I just felt like I was transported back to 1955.
Hey I dress how I want to when I want to! Women can dress how they want to ! I don't put clothes on everyday to HOOK A GOOD MAN or otherwise! this was the most backward patriachal nonsense I have ever read!
WE ALL KNOW THE MOUSY girl with the GOOD HUSBAND who is actually a two faced lying cheat!
WE ALL KNOW THE GLAMOURPUSS SHOWGIRL with the DOWN TO EARTH decent bloke!
There are NO RULES do and wear what makes you feel good about yourself.
END RANT.

wow! READNG THIS I just felt like I was transported back to 1955.
Hey I dress how I want to when I want to! Women can dress how they want to ! I don't put clothes on everyday to HOOK A GOOD MAN or otherwise! this was the most backward patriachal nonsense I have ever read!
WE ALL KNOW THE MOUSY girl with the GOOD HUSBAND who is actually a two faced lying cheat!
WE ALL KNOW THE GLAMOURPUSS SHOWGIRL with the DOWN TO EARTH decent bloke!
There are NO RULES do and wear what makes you feel good about yourself.
END RANT.

I'm still very much single and too busy with work these days to even contemplate focusing on dating. When I'm not working I'm sleeping, sad state of affairs ?

says it all really.

says it all really.

says it all really.

says it all really.

Hi Ladies

Well after a long long time of researching surgeons and procedures for boobs. I chose to consult with Dr Hamish Farrow last thursday. He was amazing, a wonderful personable man full of knowledge and also listening and understanding what I hope to achieve.

I went home armed with information and decided that night to book the next morning. I rang his office on Friday morning (last week) and was told I could be fit in this TUESDAY! 17th June. I was not expecting it to happen this fast but I went with it and organised my life around it!

Yesterday, I arrived at St Vincents Private in East Melbourne at 11am for a 3pm'ish surgery. I was last on the list. I filled out the paperwork, paid my hospital bill and was taken up to my private room. I had a long afternoon to kill with the TV for company.

By the time my surgery rolled around it was 4:30pm and I was sooooo thirsty I had a slight headache. I had fasted since 7am. I was taken to the waiting room near the surgical theatres and was there about 10 minutes before the Anaesthesist came and saw me, then Hamish himself. They took me into the surgery room and within about 10 seconds of the anethesist doing his work, I was OUT. I don't know what time it was when I woke up in recovery possibly about 6:30pm-7:00pm. I was taken back up to my room. When in my room my lovely male nurse came to see me and he commented on how my right breast was swollen a cup size more than the left. I was not very with it and had not noticed. When I looked down I saw what he meant. He was concerned I may have a hematoma as the breast was still soft to touch. He rang Dr Hamish who had left the hospital and he said he was coming back. It would have been about 8pm. I was not allowed to have any food or water in case they had to open me up again.

So about 9pm I was wheeled back down to surgery. By this time my right breast had deflated somewhat and was looking more like the left. Dr Hamish suggested he reopen my right breast to ensure I do not have a hematoma.

It was after 10pm when I re-awoke and I was told by Dr Hamish I was fine. There was no hematoma or implant issue. It was simply the way my right breast reacted swelling more than the left. But as he said "better to check now, than at 3:00 o'clock in the morning.

So I was back in my room just before 11pm. Begging for water and a cracker. I was given 3 packs of dry crackers and some water to sip. About an hour after that I was asking for MORE FOOD. So at midnight I was having a sandwich, drinking OJ and watching old B&W movies until I fell asleep.

I was on a drip for hydration and antibiotics all night until I left this morning at 9:30am.

I just want to let you all know the staff at the hospital and Dr Hamish Farrow were all exemplarly in their care and I am so glad I stayed overnight. I would not have felt right about coming home afterwards.

I am home now resting with pain killers and antibiotics. I am not too bad with pain. My back feels tight.

Yay for new boobs!






39 years old (no children)
173cm, 64kg
prior to surgery small C cup, after hoping for a D cup
325cc silicone, under the muscle, crease insertion
Dr Hamish Farrow

TROPICAL REJUVENATION: Gosh I wish I'd known about this Forum before going on a group tour with Tropical Rejuvenation in August this year, 2015. I specifically went with them because I was alone and was promised Wendy would be there when I went into surgery and when I came out. I had a seven hour surgery, Breast augmentation & lift and major tummy tuck. I was meant to have a facelift as well but everything was way more expensive than my quotes and I had a tummy tuck that was more extensive than usual which I didn't know about until I reached Thailand as Wendy had never mentioned it. They wanted a further $6000 for the facelift, I was very upset and Wendy said the Dr had said he may do it free for me but she came into his office with me and I was too upset to speak, neither of them mentioned it and she never did again after that. All up this cost me $21,000au. She was not there for any support in the instances she assured me that she would be nor when I went back to surgery for losing too much blood. Four days later I was sent back to the hotel around 8.30pm, there was nobody to meet me even though I had had major surgery. Three days later after going two with no food except my sultana bran because I had no phone credit ( I had asked Wendy to get me some, it came 3 days later) and couldn't get to my glasses in a bag on the floor, to use hotel phone for room service because of underarm and stomach wounds, I experienced pain on a phenomenal level in my calf, straight away I was concerned about DVT. I told Wendy and at the hospital was separated from her for four hours whilst seeing a medical Dr and having ultrasound. I was alone and terrified that I was going to die in Thailand. Finally I got a nurse to call Siri a hospital employee who assists Wendy. I was sent home very very frightened but nobody met me and I spent a very frightening night wondering when the clot would dislodge and kill me. The next day I told her and she said she had looked for me in the hospital wondering where I was and rang Siri who told her where I was. She never rang me which would've made more sense and knowing how afraid I was, she never contacted me (this was before I got nurse to ring Siri). With the help of other guests at the hotel I began the process of making sure I could fly home a few days later. It was a nightmare because the 'I love Wendy' club (the rest of the group), then decided to punish me for being unhappy with my treatment and daring to say so, so they began ignoring me and pretending not to see me at breakfast, all going to another table. One young girl came and comforted me but by later that day had obviously been spoken to and did the same. This mature and supposedly supportive group behaved like catty school girls with no idea or interest in how it was for me. I am single earning my own living and not well off but everyday I thank god that I am a caring loving person and the only time I look down on people is to offer my hand to pick them up. Shame on you grown women! Hotel staff were so caring it makes me cry remembering just how much they helped me offering me a seat when I could hardly hobble to the lift, rushing to open the lift door and press the button for my floor, the cleaners helping me to sit before walking to my room. With the help of these beautiful people and especially Ani & Neil from NZ, I made it back to Australia and am doing well.
Dr Anuchit also said a stitch wound was open and gave me antibiotic cream and dressings. After ten days of it staying moist I went to my Dr. here in Australia, it turned out it was a rupture with dead tissue inside blocking the healing. I have had a Silver Chain nurse to dress it every second day for two months. The wound area is revolting and the scar will be ugly.
Two others that I know of in my group have been admitted to hospital since arriving back in Australia.
I needed a wheelchair for the airport and prayed with every inch of my being not to die on the plane. We arrived home 30th August. I live on my own, in a caravan not 10 minutes from where Wendy lives, I have no family here and only know a few people as I haven't lived long in WA. The people in the camp cared for me. Wendy rang to see how I was on the 6th October saying she'd had a throat infection for 8 days on arriving home and lost her voice! This was 36 days later, I have a potentially life threatening condition which I am on medication for for the next four months and her reason for not contacting me was a sore throat, as if she couldn't email, SMS, call around or write a letter or get her husband to!
Tropical Rejuvenation made a great deal of money from my pain, fear and misery. She must be being paid by the hospital for bringing so much wealth their way or otherwise it wouldn't be worth it for the $800 the client pays. Wendy talks about the other companies doing the same thing and how she feels sorry for people going with them because they get to Thailand and get dumped with no support. Whats that about pots calling the kettle black? I see that someone has been threatened previously for posting here but it needs to be said, we are people not cattle and we are trusting that we will receive the care and support we are assured of and pay for. If this happens I will deal with it after all I survived Thailand.
I cannot fault the hospital, the cleanliness, the staff and the genuine care I received at Bangkok Pattaya Hospital.

Thankyou girls.. means alot
For months after my surgery i did not wear a bra i just wore sports bras/crop tops and i noticed them dropping too much so i now wear a bra everyday.. i tried to wear one to bed last night but too uncomfortable!
Ill try post a photo without a bra on
No bra on 12 months post op

I'm surprised people would recommend this for the lips, are you sure it's not just the girls on the phone saying yes to get you in?
voluma has amazing lift and is a facial restructuring product, I would imagine it to go hard and lumpy if ever placed in a lip, honestly blows my mind anyone would think this ok?
You can use ultra plus in the lip for extra lift and longevity but this also is a stiff product and can take weeks to settle completely.
Imo nothing beats ultra done every 4 weeks until you reach your goal volume and then you should maintain longer.

I had about 4ml of Emervel on July 15. With 1.3ML in my lips. I have attached pics. I have no lip colour in either pic for reference just paw paw. Yes, there has been some deflation. I personally think I need lip filler every 3 months. My lips eat it. It is an expensive addiction.

Hi, if you google it , it would be better explained than from me. But I "try" to eat that way and it does work.

You train your body to utilise the fat you already have as energy. Which means you live off fat, protein and green vegetables. You need to do this for 4 weeks straight absolutely NO SUGAR or carbs. (bread, pasta, rice etc)

So you eat, meat, eggs, cheese, avocado, nuts etc etc...It is easy to not be hungry. Regular small meals.

On our western diets our bodies run off carbohydrates and sugar. Then when we exercise we are burning that and then our actual muscle ..our bodies hold the fat for as long as possible.

If you retrain your body by eating protein and fat ...and I mean good fats. Your body will burn the fat for energy. I am in great shape thanks to eating this way and weight training.

I am not going to lie I have had my 'moments' with both sugar and 'carbs'.

You don't need it. It is not worth the money. Invest it in a PT at a gym that focuses on weight training and competitions. and get some high quality food delivered. You are so close! you need to put on the muscle to keep the fat off anyway. Liposuction is not permanent. You can do it! You look great right now. Have you tried putting your body into Ketosis? a quickfix never works.

Cathy sorry you're having a bad time. I don't like the implant and I don't like any implant that is sold as a miraculous implant that promises the world. I think potentially suited only in reconstruction on those that have suffered CC multiple times or very bad. A lot of PS are even steering away from using them at all. I would get them removed and replaced with a regular implant and I think you'll be happier

Yes, join the club....I'm getting mine ripped out in December & replaced with a regular non-sticky implant...I'd rather risk getting CC etc than have breast implants that people remark how fake and unnatural they look on my chest....I wanted big and a natural look....not bolt-ons that hardly move and sit so high up my chest....I hate them...

it's because boobs have become 'getting your hair done' and whilst we can all live with a bad hair cut or dye job ..surgery is another thing all together but so many girls on here don't seem to have that 'common sense' they just want the cheapest they can get. I don't want to offend anyone but I haven't seen a TCI boob job that I have liked, I think they are mostly horrendous and look like they were done in a hurry with a one size fits all approach .. its as if the girl is getting off the operating table and going straight to the 'club'.
YOU ARE PUTTING A FOREIGN OBJECT IN YOUR BODY you are having an OPERATION everytime you go into a hospital for an operation you ARE PUTTING YOUR LIFE AT RISK...dying for boobs is not worth it. And if you pay $6000 or whatever they charge and you don't like them in 12 months then what?

There's been posts from women asking exactly that- how soon can I go braless because I have a party/music festival to go to. They want their boobs as freshly done as their hair and tan. I'm with you on the TCI look. Not my cup of tea. It's the same look regardless of body type. It does annoy me that they get so much discussion on these boards. It's like everyone talking up maccas as the delicious option and ignoring the 5 star restaurants on offer.

it's because boobs have become 'getting your hair done' and whilst we can all live with a bad hair cut or dye job ..surgery is another thing all together but so many girls on here don't seem to have that 'common sense' they just want the cheapest they can get. I don't want to offend anyone but I haven't seen a TCI boob job that I have liked, I think they are mostly horrendous and look like they were done in a hurry with a one size fits all approach .. its as if the girl is getting off the operating table and going straight to the 'club'.
YOU ARE PUTTING A FOREIGN OBJECT IN YOUR BODY you are having an OPERATION everytime you go into a hospital for an operation you ARE PUTTING YOUR LIFE AT RISK...dying for boobs is not worth it. And if you pay $6000 or whatever they charge and you don't like them in 12 months then what?